Ever so often when someone comes to us with a predicament/problem/etc. we offer them advice thinking that we are benefiting them. We lose sight of what the person is really trying to say. We feed them with our logic, of what society deems as logic and close our hearts to theirs, of what they really want.
I'm sure some of us, unfortunately I have been too, governed by our own fears told someone in our lives that their dream was impossible to achieve. We think that by giving them solid "logic" of because it happened to this person I know..so and so you shouldn't do that..that we become dream killers. As blunt as it may sound, murderers. We fail to empower and we hold them small.
We think that the advice will save them the heartache, as protection. We fail to see that we are only stunting their growth and learning process.
I've been in the business of making people's dreams come true and one thing that I have learnt is people only need to believe in themselves and what they are doing. Truth is a very subjective matter. The truth is what one makes of it, of what one wants to believe, is the truth. Therefore it shall happen. God willing.
my invitation to you is when someone comes up to you and shares their dreams of the future, regardless of how ridiculous it may sound the only thing that I would want you to question them is, Do you really want it? Will it make you happy? so if they say yes, support them. Don't let your own judgments of their situation dampen what they want.
And for those of you who have dreams, by all means pursue it with all vigour and regardless of how dark the clouds are, how stormy it is, go and get it with unwaivering faith. Blind yourself to the negativity and have the light of positivity, endurance and excellence, or whatever is real for you guide you to materializing your dream(s).
I bid you good luck on your journey towards finding success, freedom, love. Have it as an affirmation and say it everyday until you feel it in your soul, evoking the power within.
I believe in you and your dreams. Now it's time for you to believe in yourself and take inspired action!
Be in creation!
To hate is easy, to love takes courage. Be courageous. Dare! to be different and never submit to the norm.
WHAT I LIVE BY
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine as children do. It's not just in some of us; it is in everyone. And as we let our own lights shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.