Sep 27, 2008

Dismiss the idea of failure in your mind SO...


I got the title from this book called You can be the happiest woman in the world by Dr. Aid Al Qarni. The quote moved me. But I didn't quite like how it was worded because if you're familiar with the teachings of The Secret we should make our affirmations positive.

My mind has the tendency of thinking the worst possible outcome before the positive one. This quote is just what I needed. I needed to dismiss the idea of failure. Failing in my life and most importantly failing in my love life. It's not easy when I have a background of failed relationships that not only happened to me but around the people that are close to me.

In my weak attempt to cheer myself up the thought of my friend's saying came to mind. WHEN IT'S A HARD LIFE THAT YOU LIVE, IT'S HARD TO BE POSITIVE. I find this so true. But I've come to a realization that this shouldn't be my reality. My destiny is in my hands. Not other people. When I focus my mind to positive things, I've always attracted positive experiences into my life. Vice versa. Always have unwaivering faith that things will be great for you. My friend Jazzy says. Omigod it's so true. I've always thought that life was about you know taking things as it is, but we do have control over what happens to us.

It's like when I have a negative thought and I entertain it it's as if I'm asking God for this thing to happen.

The habit of thinking the negative before the positive always happens to me. When I think of the word HABIT, like smoking, drinking and all the negative vices it occurred to me that this "habit" that I had was slowly destroying my system and most obvious, my relationship with my MMS. It's a hard habit to break but I've got to start somewhere. I can't be spending my life always in doubt and not trust God that He has good intentions for me. And I must trust that I DESERVE THE VERY BEST THAT LIFE HAS TO OFFER. Not place myself in this impending negativity that eats away at my faith and sanity.

Therefore now I'm going to just move forward, and think positively, regardless. This is my new habit. SO BE IT. Keep positive company and positive things will surely occur. This is my truth, my reality.

1 comment:

Regi said...

Time to start assigning you more books :)


Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine as children do. It's not just in some of us; it is in everyone. And as we let our own lights shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.