Sep 12, 2008

Break up day 3

You know just when you thought things would be different. Your heart aches like nobody's business and you're only left with this surrendering and humbling situation to love someone. And yes. It is beyond your control.

I still love him.


1 comment:

Josette said...

Hey there,

It sucks to break up. I feel your pain. But in time it'll get better. It's going to be four months for me and I'm not missing him much already.

Hmm, maybe it varies for different people and how long your relationship has been. Mine had been 3 years, so it *might* take a year to heal. That's a long time, I'll say.

Low self-esteem, saying life sucks everyday, 'I wish he'd be miserable for the rest of his life' :D, these were all post-breakup effects for me.

Talk to your friends and never contact him. Don't look at his photos. Don't look at the things he's given you.

DON'T BEG HIM TO TAKE YOU BACK. This is important. You've got to work on yourself now. Yes, you've been hurt and wronged. But you've got to concentrate on yourself now, not him. Treat yourself as often as possible but don't spend all your money though! Just try to enjoy yourself, watch funny movies, listen to 'Over You' by Daughtry, etc.

I guess I've written too much! But it's all up to you. Last time when I SMSed *him*, my friend scolded me severely. He's the one who called it quits, so why should I wish him Happy birthday? Since then, I never contacted him again. :)

Good luck to you!


Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine as children do. It's not just in some of us; it is in everyone. And as we let our own lights shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.